Parcel From Sarawak

I m at home the whole day
and also was waiting for the parcel from Sawarak
never thought that the Pos Laju service already so "laju"
parcel sent on yesterday and reached my place by 2pm ++
the sender sent me the cereal drink + 1 big packet of sesame
the fren knew I was sicked for few weeks and suggested me to take the cereal drink
+ sesame is good for lady (according to that fren)
Thanks alot for the fren I know via Plurk

Surprised Dinner

It was a rainy Friday
he spent 2 hours and I spent 1hour 45 mins to reach the place
seems like everytime also rain when meeting up in PJ (i hate JAM)
hahah
the dinner was short due to the time flies
have a nice dinner that night although the time is short...
thanks J for giving me the surprised dinner :)
bcoz i tot we won't meet this week
miss miss~~

Video Version For Ice Cream Session In Penang

Yvonne, please dun kill me, ngek ngek ngek.. blek :þ

感染

够力了(马来西亚华语)
最近身边的朋友不停的更新
那些照片
那些超可爱的小孩
竟然让我想有小孩的冲动
心境上从最讨厌那些整天大喊大叫像个没教养的孩子
到很讨人喜欢的小孩而改变
不得不承认自己真的老了
不是因为数字上的逐年增加
而是很多人已经是不同身份了
我到底在搞什么?=.="

最期待看到Celina Junior... 哈哈哈
因为那孩子连睡也会笑,像极了Celina

难受

我很不喜欢这样的感觉
心又在思念时候
隐隐作痛
控制不了的思念
更控制不了那思念的痛
很努力用歌曲洗脑
听着penny >街角的祝福

祝福需要很大的勇气。。。。。

转载: 性病，不是愛情的結晶

性病，不是愛情的結晶

• 副刊
• 星雲

2009-10-20 14:38

羅馬神話中掌管愛和美的女神維納斯（Venus）創造了venery，它在希臘語中代表性病（venereal disease），是男歡女愛的後果。但我卻認為，性病根本與愛情無關。

根據世界衛生組織就亞洲展開調查，發現7500萬名男士去找性工作者，當中卻有500萬名跟良家婦女結婚了；更可怕的是，在梅毒感染者的數據中，分別有10%是男性青少年，以及20%來自女性青少年。

感染性病的人找上我的都是男性，我發覺這些性病感染者都有共同的模式中循環。大部份感染性病的都是來自年約四十的男性，他們是生意人，因應酬而到卡拉OK、酒吧，從中認識年輕美眉，借酒意的刺激而亂性。

從年輕少女身上找到第二春的感覺，他們猶豫是否要越軌，有的人只敢摟摟抱抱，有的卻把持不住發生了性關係。這時，就要承擔男歡女愛後的風險了。

酒醒後，男人已赤裸裸地躺在床上，帶惺忪的頭腦到浴室，花灑淋醒了才來後悔。他漸漸擔心自己會因一時的快感而連性命都賠上。當所有可能發生的風險都一一地擺在眼前，心裡就非常恐慌。

潔身自愛為上策

不幸感染性病的，下體會癢、出現紅斑、小便痛、流血、流膿等症狀。這些人通常會有三種反應，一、鴕鳥心態：什麼也不要知道，繼續和伴侶發生性行為，以致傳染性病給枕邊人；二、小老鼠心態：偷偷在網絡尋找資料且道聽塗說亂用偏方自我醫治，無法根治一樣把性病傳染給伴侶。三、敢作敢為型：發現性病跡象馬上找醫生檢驗，但卻徘徊於是否對伴侶從實招來。他們會責怪這全是別人的錯，責怪和他發生一夜情的女人把性病傳染給自己。

在治療階段，幸運的話只要吃藥、打針就可痊癒，倘若感染的是愛滋病，就要好自為之了。在復原期間，大部分人會因怕死而乖乖就範，積極檢驗性病是否已被清除。

他們也會慚愧，以物質來向伴侶補償過錯，發誓不重犯，這不是誠心悔改，而是不敢承擔風險。可是，讓這些男人幸運拾回一條小命，他們又會自覺幸運，以酒精刺激和被女人誘惑為藉口而重犯。

一個人再幸運，也會有焦頭爛額的一天。你永遠無法計算到自己的幸運機會究竟在什麼時候用到超額，屆時，莫說名醫，即使神仙也無法把你從鬼門關拯救出來。

星洲日報／副刊‧作者：李永業‧2009.10.13

Source from: http://www.sinchew.com.my/node/134917?tid=3

Tea Time @ Gelatissimo

#6

#5 everyone give a big smiley face

#4

ogin trying out the smiley detection function ne, #3

#2

#1

spoil cha ye dan - duno how many days it has been cooked

ogin makan the spoil cha ye dan

Venue:Gelatissimo, Gurney Plaza
Purpose: tea time aka ice cream time
photo session time again, ngek ngek ngek...
i need to be a cat coz i will die few times if keep posting ogin's photos.. hhehehe
videos will be uploaded as well... kekkekee

峇峇娘惹文化 - interesting

峇峇娘惹文化：從“騎馬”迎親到敬茶習俗多‧峇峇娘惹婚禮鬧足12天

• 訴說人情
• 鄉里故事

2009-10-24 15:27

峇峇娘惹行婚禮，除了注重種種禮儀，整個婚禮可長達12天才宣告大功完成。這12天，還不包括婚禮前4天的準備功夫。

根據峇峇後裔陳再政說，在這12天裡，主要及有習俗進行的日子，是在第一天、第3、第5及第12天。

那麼，在這重要的4天裡，我們來看看峇峇族新人需要做甚麼。

◆第一天

延用中國古代儀式娶新娘

從上篇系列中提及的“梳頭”

儀式禮成後，峇峇與娘惹新人，就會穿上中式古典結婚禮服，新郎以清末民初古的裝扮示人，頭戴圓形瓜皮帽，身穿寬松長袍馬褂。

女的呢，則是一身絲綢長袍，寬袖設計，裙褂都以金線縫飾鳳凰、蝴蝶和鴛鴦等各種吉祥物，還加上綴滿金鑽的花型霞披，頭上又得頂著燦亮的鳳冠、花簪、手鐲、耳環等飾物也不能少。

古時候的中國，新郎娶新娘要騎馬，峇峇族還是延用這個名稱來當作娶新娘的其中一環，新郎準備好了，管他是走路還是坐車到新娘家，一律都稱為“騎馬”。

新郎“騎馬”，還有迎親隊伍遊行到新娘家，在新娘家門口，新郎不是馬上可以入屋，還得等到岳父母“邀請”，新郎行個禮才獲允許見新娘。

因為早期很多峇峇人的婚約都是奉父母之命，所以新人在婚禮首日才會真正見到對方，因此在這一天，新郎和新娘會在新房裡吃“cuntok”，相互敬禮。由於一對新人在這第3天勞碌奔波一整天，很累了，第4天就在家裡休息。

◆第3天

新郎坐轎子去新娘家

新郎不再是“騎馬”去新娘家，而是坐轎子，同時也有迎親隊伍遊行護送。

新娘過後就會被請上另一座轎子，被送到夫家，向夫家所有長輩敬禮，主要是認識夫家的人，也讓對方認識新娘，從家翁到家婆雙方的兄弟姐妹，新人也必須到家公家婆向長輩行禮（新郎公公婆婆、外公都得一一行禮，一套是起跪3次）。不過，這還不是敬茶的時候。

除此，新人也得到青雲亭燒香拜佛拜神拜祖先，或祖屋還在的，就要回去那裡拜祭。

◆第5天

新郎“CHIA SIA”沾福氣

第5天算是比較輕鬆的一天，這天，新郎要請較有身份地位的男人吃飯，稱為“CHIA SIA”，這些男人被喻為比較好命，希望新郎可以沾沾他們的福氣。

除此，新郎在這天也會請他的兄弟好友到新娘家去，而新娘也會邀請好姐妹來，大家互相認識做朋友。

當中，男女雙方好友都會在一起敬酒、彼此介紹然後說笑話，也會故意逗弄新娘子，唯新娘不可以笑出來，全程必須保持沉默，否則就會被認為是“發姣”，恨不得快快嫁出去，有損身為黃花閨女的身份。如果新娘忍不住笑了，那麼新郎就得請朋友們吃一餐了。

◆第12天

新娘最重要的一天

第12天是峇峇娘惹新人最重要的一天，尤其是新娘。這天，新郎母親會去媳婦家，和親家母談談女兒是不是處女。

早期人相信處女首次行房便會出血，新娘行房後所穿一件白褲，會被折好放在一個托盤上，底下鋪上碎花，上面再蓋一層布，請親家母“過目”。=.="

雖然有這個“規定”，但處女血還是被喻為“不祥”的東西，一般上親家母都會笑著“婉拒”，或者只是“象徵式”地掀一掀上層那塊布，表示“認證”媳婦是處女就是了。

經過這一關，新郎母親就會通知叫男方家煮好椰漿飯送到女方家去，接著新娘會跟著回到夫家，正式地給長輩敬茶，喝過這杯茶，才表示新娘已獲夫家接受。夫家敬茶完畢，新人就會到新娘家去敬茶，12天的婚禮總算在這時候畫上句號。

星洲日報／大都會‧2009.10.23

Source from : http://mykampung.sinchew.com.my/node/81028

Random Shot 2 @ Penang

kekeke this is the prove of chow v something in the hand.. hope his wife never see this photo

2nd Day - Breakfast @ Sister Char Koey Teow

yummy bak zhang

this is small size crab meat char kuey teow

the favourite lohbak and fried thingss

kaki ayam

this is really tasty

spicy prawn mee aka hokkian mee

Date: 1st Oct 2009
PPl: paul, Paul Sou, Chow, Danny, Yvonne, Joce

Danny decided to bring the gang visit the same sister char keoy teow again
this time we parked our car at the hospital car park located opposite the road
hahahaha
ok i feel bad coz the car park ppl return extra $$ back to me
anyhow, this time the breakfast is super full coz order many things to share and try
the bak zhang, yu tou gao are really delicious

Love Drunk - Boys Like Girls

Love Drunk

Lyrics:

Top down in the summer sun
The day we met was like a hit and run
And I still taste it on my tongue
The sky was burning up like fireworks
You made me want you oh so bad it hurt
But girl, in case you havent heard

I used to be love drunk
But now Im hungover
Ill love you forever
Forever is over
We used to kiss all night
Now its just a bar fight
So dont call me crying
Say hello to goodbye

Cause Just one sip would make me say
I used to be love drunk
But now Im hungover
Ill love you forever
But now its over

Hot sweat and blurry eyes
Were spinning on a roller coaster ride
The world stuck in black and white
You drove me crazy every time we touched
But now Im so broken that I cant get up
Oh girl, you make me such a lush

I used to be love drunk
But now Im hungover
Ill love you forever
Forever is over
We used to kiss all night
Now its just a bar fight
So dont call me crying
Say hello to goodbye

Cause Just one sip would make me say
I used to be love drunk
But now Im hungover
Ill love you forever
But now its over

All the time I wasted on you
All the bullshit you put me through
Checking into rehab is everything that we had
Didnt mean a thing to you

I used to be love drunk
But now Im hungover
Ill love you forever
But now its over

I used to be love drunk
But now Im hungover
Ill love you forever
Forever is over
We used to kiss all night
Now its just a bar fight
So dont call me crying
Say hello to goodbye

Cause Just one sip would make me say
I used to be love drunk
But now Im hungover
Ill love you forever
But now its over

Now its over
I still taste it on my tongue

Ghee Hiang, Penang

everyone was bz shooting

Ogin, hehe

Ogin gonna kill me if she saw these photos coz i not yet pass the photos to her filter out b4 posting
ngek ngek ngek...
so scarenya if will be murdered one day...
i need a bodyguard from now on.. haha

Date: 01 Oct 2009
Ppl: Paul, Paul Sou (Xiao Mei), Chow, Danny, Yvonne, Joce

1st day - 4th Stop > Sei Dai Tin Wong 四大天王

Date: 30th Sept 2009
Ppl: Paul, Paul Sou, danny , Chow, Yvonne, Joce

ogin and Joce are not into the kuah zap hence didn't order
only order tong shui and char koey teow and its spicy
the reason they called the 4th stalls as 四大天王 is due to they are selling 4 diff things - tong shui, kuah zap, fried keow teow and another one i 4got d coz not open that night

Am I Banana Girl??

banana girl - Lai Yee Ling
◆香蕉女孩：
　　值得人信赖，有时太过认真
◆性格
　　你是个拥有成为明星人物架势的女生，对人重情重义，决不会推卸责任。被人要求帮忙也绝对不会说NO的人，即使吃亏也会将事情扛下来。个性上虽然很任性，倔强，但也决不会轻易表现出来，因为内心渴望被称赞「你真是个了不起的女性！」。当遇上不公平的事情时，也会尽量忍耐，不会因此就口出恶言而破坏自己的形象。
◆恋爱结婚
　　男生只要和你在一起就会感到有点喘不过气来。然而当你遇上心目中理想的对象时，就会为他付出一切，但不幸的也可能因此常常被背叛。认真，容易相信他人与个性温柔虽然是你的优点，但却导致你自己在恋爱上常常受骗上当。对你而言，在婚后确实能成为一个贤妻良母，但是恋爱时若是太过为对方付出的话，反而会受到反效果。

**i HATE being cheated, seriously**

1st Day - 3rd Stop @ Same Foodcourt Again

my favor duck rice.. this is yummy bside the KL chinatown 四眼仔's duck

this soup is tasty, from the same roasted duck and roasted chicken rice stall

i think this is another plate of roasted duck rice

penang bak kut teh, still prefer klang one

**Photos taken using T900**

Date: 30th Sept 2009
PPl: Paul, Paul Sou (xiao mei), Chow, Danny, Joce

headed to the smae food court for our dinner
we know we will have another yum cha session with Ogin when she arrived around 9pm
coz will only start our food journey after Ogin reach
i was having the food on that day like every 2 hours a meal
gosh...photos about penang 四大天王 (sei dai tin wong) as our supper will be posted next time

**a warm reminder, don't view my blog at midnite, or else u will feel hungry..**

Random Shot @ Penang

ah chow bought this in the airport
we planned to drink it b4 the wedding dinner
manatau everyone too exhausted till feeling sick
even check out tha ttime, we 4got to bring it out
and i left my room door open
thank god the Jonnie Walker was still there when we back to the hotel

1st Day - 2nd Stop > A FoodCourt Nearby BSuite

Chow was playing Danny's EOS1000

otak otak again , Taste: terrible

Date: 30th Sept 2009
Ppl: Ah Chow, Danny Lee, Joce

after fetching chow at Penang airport, we continue our food journey at a foodcourt nearby BSuite and nearby Danny's house
continue ordered the otak otak but the otak otak really not nice at all
next, Danny and Chow fetched Paul and Paul Sou at the airport after 2 hours and headed to the same place for food again

1st Day - 1st Stop > Sister Char Koey Teow

closer look of the crab meat

crab meat char koey teow

the favourite lobak - one of the fried thing make me sore throat ><

芋头糕

the lay hu bao鲤鱼鲍 aka otak otak

Date: 30th Sept 2009
Ppl: Joce, Danny Lee
this is the 1st stop after check in the hotel in Penang
i followed my fren order the rm 6 char koey teow is bcoz got extra prawn
see the prawns are so fresh and big
yummy~~
**note: the location of this shop is not really good coz not easy to find parking and need to across the road with heavy traffic**